Give
them the confidence that you are there FOR them. Let them feel you are there to
support their justifiable causes. Let them understand you are there to make
their lives smooth for them.
How
do you do all these?
By being much more than a subject teacher.
See
them as human beings, understand and deal with their shortcomings with empathy
(mind you, don’t condescend, they’ll know), applaud their strengths, help them
in whatever way you can with the administration and other staff.
1. Ground Rules
In
my first class with students, I'd emphasise this: Remember this every moment
you're in class. Two palms are required to clap, two feet are needed to move,
mind and heart are necessary to make a human whole, if I'm the one palm you are
the other, if I'm one foot you're the
other. If I'm the heart you're the mind. I'll do my best and so should you.
All
the others are secondary. The ground rules come first. Always.
2. Greet them
first
Don’t
wait for your students, greet them as soon as you see them, wherever you see
them. A greeting and a cheerful face go a long way in initiating the rapport.
3. Make
enquiries
Enquire
after their health, get to know details about any visible health issue. Such a
gesture indicates your concern for them.
4. Encourage
them
Involve
yourself in extracurricular activities; this will lead to their participation.
Praise their little or big successes. Admire their talents. Be proud of their
achievements.
5. Support their
just causes
Let
them see you championing their wishes, needs and comforts.
6. Meet parents
Be
in frequent touch with parents or relatives. Especially of those ‘difficult’
children. Discuss their physical and mental well-being. Suggest that neatness
and discipline at home, respect for time, good habits go a long way in shaping
their children’s future.
7. Outdoors
Arrange
for picnics, trips to places closeby, meaningful occupation of time—games,
singing, dancing, painting, cooking.
Arrange
for meaningful social activities—keeping surroundings clean, literacy to
elders, getting things done for illiterates.
And
so on.
Be much more than a subject teacher.
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